Ok I shut dows httpd (Apache) and freed up 80 and 443... restarted Zimbra... still no luck. - ok now I have uninstalled... reinstalled with httpd disabled -> still nothing. - I think I am going to give up for a week or two and come back to this mess with a freash mind.
Also I guess this means that zimbra needs a dedicated server? - Also how do you reccomend dealing with 1 IP and a web server on 192.168.0.5:80 and a zimbra server on 192.168.0.7:80?