Ok here are my server details.
rustyriley.com has the following NAME SERVERS (NS)
below are my MX and A record information
rustyriley.com A 188.8.131.52
mail.rustyriley.com MX (10) 184.108.40.206
mail.rustyriley.com A 220.127.116.11
is that right or is that still wrong? Sorry for being such an idiot when it comes to dns management.